Four Letters Word

There are so many words in four letters but which word will come out from our mind is depend on the climate of our heart. There are two words crossed my mind just now which are totally contradicted, one is 'love' and one is 'hate'. Love is the foundation of hate? Is it true? I hate you so much show that actually i still love you very much? To me, the answer in NO. Love and hate cannot stand together. If I love you, no matter what you did to me and how much hurt you bring to me, I will forgive and accept you as you are...as many times as it could take until the love fade. Its not because of hate but its because the love faded. When we stop loving somebody, its doesn't mean we hate that person! It's just a turning point to change the relationship to become a friendship. Why must we replace the fading love with hate? Life is so short and has very limited space to fill in. So why have to fill with hate? If fall apart, cant we wish and bless each other have another wonderful journey? God loves us so much. Because of our sin, we fall apart from God but God still loves us so much and never ever hope that we all will fall to hell. He still 'open' the heaven 'gate' for us to go 'home'. Punishment...is use to make us reliaze our own faults, correct our misdoings and become a better person...not as a way to show hate and revenge. So, if we are angry, have arguement, a fight or even decided to fall apart, forgiveness and blessing are the way to say goodbye and blessed by God and one day if we met again, we still can smile and greet each other. Even we don't have the same way in our life journey but we still can choose the same path to heaven. Lets put aside this four letters word ... 'hate' in any kind of broken relationship to feel free to soar the blue sky and under the thunder with our strong wings without any burden in our heart.